Thank you, Bobster. The installer came out already to check and is suggesting to get a new bidirectional meter. Maybe the Conlog meter is too sensitive, when inverter sends small amounts of load back into the grid, although the grid trickle feed is on 50. Bidirectional meter and installation by Municipality doesn't come cheap and since it is an "maybe" option I'm trying to source for alternativ explainations. I set the grid trickle feed to 100 now, hoping to prevent the system from sending load into the grid.
Dodgy wiring, we also thought, could maybe cause the problem. But lately it also happens when sun is out - sometimes even midday.