I am glad that you have pointed out that people should read things thoroughly. You may want to start with the Terms of Service of The Powerforum, where you will notice that The Administrator and Moderator's decisions are final, so please do not argue with them.
I am encouraged by that fact that you have apologised to the offended member. Well done! This means a lot, and speaks to your own social skills and abilities.
The Powerforum has a preference for members who are even tempered, helpful, considerate, well mannered and generally nice. These are qualities that have built The Powerforum into the great online community and respected online resource that it is today.